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Love is the greatest gift of God. Learn the art of it. Learn the song of it, the celebration of it. It is an absolute need: just as the body cannot survive without food, the soul cannot survive without love. Love is the nourishment of the soul, it is the beginning of all that is great, it is the door of the divine. " BE " in Love..

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Treat yourself
When u’ve been hurt by someone you love your self esteem hits rock bottom, so its good to treat yourself to something that boosts your confidence. Buy the latest gizmo or book yourself for an erotic holiday.

Don’t date too soon
Forcing yourself to go on blind dates set up by well meaning friends is fine when you feel ready, but if you rush into dating too soon you’ll do more harm than good

Get closure
If you shared a home with your ex, ask them to remove their stuff as soon as possible. If you’re the one leaving, move out soon. Only then you can start afresh.

D@ ThEy LiKe Y@U...???

There are diff answers for men and for women. Men tend to err in the direction of assuming the woman is interested because she's being polite. Women tend to err in the direction of assuming a man isn't interested because he's dividing his time equally between her and something completely trivial like, say, earning a living.

For Men: You'll know if they like you. Trust me, you will. What this means is that if you're really not sure--then they probably don't. Most women are not teases. She may also be doing things like not returning your calls and only seeing you once every other week or so. Why the girl does keep going out on the occasional date, I don't know. It's just something we do. We were brought up to be conciliatory. Blame it on our mothers. But, remember, you should be civilized. Pick up on the cues and don't force a big confrontation. This way you both come out with your egos intact.

For Women: You'll know if they like you. Trust me, you will. But only if you're not a freak about it. You know how if one of your friends is really busy and they say 'I can't talk right now' you hang up the phone and don't think twice about it? Because you know that you're friends. She's been nice to you million other times, so the fact that she was short once isn't an issue. But if a boy does it to you, you get all stressed out and insecure and convinced that he hates you--even though he's also been nice to you million times before. Don't succomb to this rollercoaster ride.

Do U WaNNa KiSS SoMe OnE...?

Never ask first. Never. Ever. Asking first is just awful. Kills all the romance. Ask about everything else once you really start getting physical. But just don't ask about the kissing part.
But, of course, never kiss someone who doesn't want to be kissed. This is where boys get all defensive.

If you have to lean across more than a foot of space, she doesn't want to be kissed. And anyway, you shouldn't be trying to kiss someone out of the blue anyway. It's like pealing out of a driveway without giving the engine time to warm up. You've got to move a little closer, touch them a little first. Personally, I think holding someone's hand first is a little weird, but some women like that. The all time best thing to do though, is play with her hair. Brush it out of her face. Don't do this while staring intently into her eyes trying to Make A Moment out of it. Just do it casually. Touch her like it's the most natural thing in the world to be touching her. Pay attention: if she retreats to the opposite side of the couch or porch or car well then she's more than a foot away isn't she? No kisses. If she sticks around, keep playing with the hair and go for it.

And don't go nuts with passion either. It's a first kiss--make it sweet and short, 5-10 seconds at most, smile at her and then go back to talking. This is, of course, the description of a date first kiss, you know where you actually like the girl--but it will get you pretty far with one you just randomly picked up too.

10 FliRtInG GeStUrEs

1) Eyebrow Flash: An exaggerated raising of both eyebrows for a couple of seconds, followed by a rapid lowering to normal position. The eyebrow flash is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.
2) Lip Lick: This is a very common flirting technique. Some people use a single-lip lick, wetting only their upper or lower lip, while others run their tongue around the entire lip area.
3) Short Darting Glance: These glances usually come in bouts, with an average of three glances per episode.
4) Hair Flip: Simply pushing one's fingers through the hair, in one movement or in a stroking motion, can mean business.
5) Coy Smile: A sort of half-smile, showing little if any tooth, combined with a downward gaze or very brief eye contact.
6) Whisper: When someone leans over and speaks into a friend's ear while looking at you, it's a sure sign.
7) Primp: A person who pats or smooths his or her clothing, even if there's no need, can well be trying to get your attention.
8) Skirt Hike: When a woman pulls up her hem to expose a little more leg, she's definitely interested.
9) Object Caress: Fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table or bar are all attention-getters.
10) Solitary Dance: When while seated, a person moves in time to the music while looking your way, it's time for you to get up and ask for a dance.

KnAcKiNg AnGeR

When you feel hateful, think of love. When you feel desire, think of desirelessness and the silence that comes in it. Whatsoever the case, bring the opposite in and watch what happens within you. Once you know the knack of it, you have become a master.

Now you have the key: any moment anger can be changed into compassion, any moment hate can be turned into love, any moment sadness can become ecstasy. Suffering can become bliss because suffering has the same energy as the bliss; the energy is not different. You just have to know how to channel it.

WaYz To SaY, "I LoVe YoU!"

Share all aspects of your life.
Write love comments on the morning newspaper.
Be "in the mood."
Spray your love letters with perfume.
Imagine you are the only two people in the world.
Sneak an afternoon nap together.
Slip your own message inside your love's fortune cookie.
Look for the good in your love.
Do his laundry.
Send flowers to her office.
Leave a love note hidden under the pillow.
Wash her car.
Browse through old photos of the two of you.
Make a practice of long kisses.
Cultivate trust by always being honest.
Help her on and off with her coat.
Give books of romantic poetry.
Stage your own kissing marathon.
Enjoy a picnic among fountains in an urban plaza setting.
Buy your mate a gold coin from the year you met.
Surprise your mate with twenty-six gifts from A to Z that begin with each of the letters of the alphabet.
Remind all your mate's friends to send them a card on their birthday.
Be attentive to your mate's needs.
Pick up his shirts at the cleaners.
Always treat your mate as your lover.
Flirt with each other constantly.
Be the first to jump out of bed to make coffee in the morning.
Be adventurous with a home cooked ethnic meal from your mate's background.
Show your mate you care about their background and learn all you can about their ethnic history.
Send a small evergreen tree with a note stating your pining for them.
Give him a medal for being the very best.
Blow kisses.
Hold hands in public.
Workout together.
Eat junk food by candlelight.
Write "I Love You" on the top of the butter with a toothpick.
Write "I Love You" in red lipstick across the bathroom mirror.
Place a rose inside her morning paper.
Invite your mate over for breakfast.
Offer to share the driving on long road trips.
Learn to give a great back massage.
Be playful with each other.
Finger paint a romantic masterpiece together.
Give a four leaf-clover on the eve of a big event for good luck.
Place red Christmas lights on plants for February 14th.
Take a moonlit walk on Sunday to start off the week right.
Treat her to a shopping spree at a lingerie shop.
Treat him and his buddies to an afternoon at a sports bar for the big game.
Help him pick out his ties.
Snuggle often.
Listen with your heart as well as your head.
Smile at each other often.
Rent her favorite movie.
Shampoo, blow dry and brush her hair.
Do his laundry and iron his clothes.
Write love letters at least monthly.
Serve breakfast in bed.
Have a special knock that only the two of you know.
Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is better."
Hire a maid for your not-so-tidy mate.
Carve your initials on a fence.
Ask questions about your mate's day.
Send a valentine in January to get the year rolling.

WaYz To PuT PaSSiOn BaCk iN tHe BeDrOOm

Take a hot shower or bath together. When you are in the bath or shower, keep close physical contact. Wash each other and whisper in their ear the things you specifically love about making love to them.

Share a romantic dinner in front of the fireplace. Nothing speaks romance like sharing a meal in front of the glow of a burning fire. It's even better if you're nude or barely covered with lace and silk. Make sure the dinner you share is conducive to a romantic setting. Food that can easily be eaten with the least amount of utensils is usually your best bet!

Keep constant close physical contact when you are not at home. Keeping a sparked connection throughout the night is one of the most effective ways to keeping your partner passionate about you. A hand on their thigh, a whisper in their ear or a kiss on the neck are all great for reminding your partner what's waiting at home.

A long, passionate kiss. How often do you really just express your desire in a kiss? When you first start dating it's usually one of the only ways to express your desire. Refresh your kissing skills by every so often catching your partner off-guard with a weak-in-the-knees passionate kiss.

Leave a sexy note in the morning telling them to have nothing on, but the radio when you get home. They'll be thinking about it all day at work! Want to keep your partner's mind on you ALL day? Do this idea! You can even go a step further and tell them what's in store for them as well!

Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. The best way to feed each other? Naked, of course! Set the tone for an incredible lovemaking experience with a little forethought and some of their favorite tender treats.

Slow, sensual massage, complete with massage oil. If your hands slowly massaging every part of their body can't turn them on… well, you need more than these tips to jumpstart your sexual relationship! Create new sensations with the addition of props such as a feather, fur mitten or a metal chain.

Read your partner an erotic bedtime story. The best encounters are those we don't plan on. Tell your partner you'd like to read them a story. Without letting them see the book (maybe slip a book cover over it) begin to delight their ears with a sensual story made perfect for two!

Write a sexy letter describing everything you'd like to do to them. Sometimes it's difficult to actually speak out loud the things we enjoy about sex with our partner. Leave no doubts about your attraction and get them ready for some loving with a very in-depth description about what you enjoy doing to them!

Study a new sexual practice such as tantric sex or the kama sutra together. Expand your sexual horizons and learn new ways to turn each other on. There are many, many sexual techniques you can learn or sexual practices to study. Get two books, one for each of you, on a particular subject relating to sex. Agree on a pre-determined time frame to be done with the books. On one agreed night, one partner will give a full body "report" on what they learned.

Feel "I am"

I am existing. Go deep into this feeling. Just sitting, go deep into this feeling ― I am existing, I am. Feel it, don't think it, because you can say it in the mind ― I AM ― and it is futile. Your head is your undoing. Don’t go on repeating in the head I am, I am existing. It is futile, it is useless. You miss the point.Feel it deep down in your bones. Feel it all over your body. Feel it as a total unit, not in the head. Just feel it ― I am. Don’t use the words “I am”.Don’t make it a mantra, and sitting, don’t say, “I am existing.” There is no need. Everyone knows, and you know already that you are existing; there is no need, it is futile. Feel it ― I am existing. Feeling is a different thing, totally different.Try it. And you can do it anywhere. Just riding on a bus, or traveling in a train, or just sitting, or lying down on your bed, try to feel existence as it is; don’t think about it.When you start feeling existence, the whole world becomes alive to you in a totally new way; you have not known it. Then you pass through the same street and the street is not the same, because now you are grounded in existence. You meet the same friends but they are not the same, because you are different.When you are rooted, you are one with the whole, and the existence exists for you. You are not a beggar; you become an emperor suddenly.And while feeling this, don’t create a limit to it. Feel it illimitably. Don’t create a boundary to it; there is none. It ends nowhere. The world begins nowhere; the world ends nowhere. Existence has no beginning and no end. You also don’t have any beginning; you also don’t have any end.